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name:
Veda D.
age: 18-24
sex: Female
sign: Libra
comments:
Me and my boyfriend has been going together for four years and
in October of '98 we separated. He then wanted to be with me and
have sex but I just wasn't feeling him at all.
What should I do?
Dear
Veda,
If you don't have any feelings for this person,
then why the confusion about what to do. Move
on.
Pink
name:
Sarah
age: 18-24
sex: Female
sign: Aquarius
comments:
I'm 19 and I feel like a nun because I haven't
had sex yet. People have always told me that you
have to wait for the right one because this is
the one you are always going to remember, but
I'm at the point that I just want to get it over
with so I can have some fun.
Any advice?
Dear
Sarah,
You never just Get it over with. You just open
a brand new can of worms, especially with that
kind of an attitude. Fun! That is not a good enough
reason to jump into anything and certainly not
SEX. Find other things to do that are fun, Please.
Pink
name:
Zachee
age: 25-34
sex: Female
sign: Gemini
comments:
I have been married for 9 years to a great guy
but the problem is that I am not in love with
my husband and I don't know how to tell him. I
am seeing another man that has been fulfilling
my every fantasy that I have waited a long time
for. I really do believe that this is the man
for me, but I don't want to break up the old unless
I am sure of the new.
What
kind of advice do you have for me so I can stop
tormenting myself and making my husband miserable.
Dear
Zachee,
If you aren't happy in your marriage, that should
be enough reason for you to stop tormenting your
self and your poor husband, and simply call it
quits. It seems very selfish of you to keep him
hanging while you weigh out your options with
your other lover.
Luck,
Pink
name:
Confused
age: 18-24
sex: Male
sign: Sagittarius
comments:
A friend and I went to prom together only as friends
and the night was going good until we were about
to dance. We got on the floor to a slow song and
then out of no where she said "don't kiss
me". I told her I didn't plan on it and she
started to cry, right there on the dance floor!
She told me that she really cared for me but since
we are such good friends, it's not a good idea
to be together. I was fine with that because we
have been friends for so long.
After the prom we went to hotel parties and rented
our own room. We went out to get some munchies
and she walked up to me and out of no where kissed
me and that night we slept together. Before the
prom, I didn't have feelings for her but now I
do & ever since that night, we haven't been
the same friends.
I don't know if I should just say either we should
hook up or just call it quits all together.
What do you think?
Dear
Confused,
I think you guys should sit down and have a serious
talk. Your friendship has taken a step forward,
and it does not have to be so confusing. Try to
see the situation from each other's point of view.
In the least you will both benefit by understanding
each other and thus yourselves a bit more.
Luck,
Pink
name:
Dude
age: 18-24
sex: Male
sign: Leo
comments:
Hey there Goddess.
I have a question. I have been going out with
this great girl for about 6 mos. I've never had
sex before her but she has. We had talked about
this all before we had done it.
The
fact that she had sex before sometimes bothers
me. We are so in love that I shouldn't let something
stupid like that bother me.
Why am I feeling like that? She has never been
in love before now she says, and neither have
I.
So should I have anything to worry about?
Hey
there Dude,
Whatever she did, or you did BEFORE should not
be an issue at all. What's happening now depends
on just that. Are you stupid enough to throw all
this wonderful stuff away, just because you are
jealous of something that has nothing to do with
you.
I didn't think so.
You have nothing to worry about. Having sex is
no big deal. Finding true love IS. Count your
blessings.
Enjoy
Pink
name:
Delia
age: 18-24
sex: Female
sign: Virgo
comments:
OK, Sex Goddess here my dilemma.
I have had an on-off relationship/association
with someone I am truly in love with, for 7 years
now. I've been through everything with him, through
girls, through a marriage and divorce with him.
I know in a way that him and I may not be together,
and that I should stop feeling this strongly toward
him. But then I always have, since I let him go.
He came back then it's meant to be, yah know...
Well, we engage in some sexual activities, and
some flirtation, but we don't kiss. Now I wonder
why is it harder for us to kiss, than to engage
in the sexual activity part... is it commitment,
is that the thing when you kiss? I'm not sure,
can you please help me..?
Dear
Delia,
You may not like what I have to say about this,
but you asked for it so here goes. I think you
both serve as cushions to each other. It's a mutual
comforting society. Sex being the source for comfort.
You don't kiss, that's because kissing is more
romantic and emotional than sex which is more
mental and physical. I don't think you are in
love with this person.
You maybe good friends, or just bedmates.
Enjoy,
Pink
name:
?
age: 18-24
sex: Female
sign: Libra
comments:
I've been going with my boyfriend for two years
and I love him more than anything. A little while
ago I told him that I cheated on him. I told him
that I was sorry for the mistake that I made.
I honestly don't want to do that to him again.
When I cheated on him I never had sex or fooled
around with anyone else.
He doesn't believe me and he wants me to tell
him the truth. The problem is that the truth is
what I told him and if I tell him what he wants
to hear, later on he may find out that I was lying
and leave me anyway.
What do I do to get him to believe me and love
me again?
Dearie,
What constitutes cheating according to you? Did
you commit THOUGHT CRIME or
something? You didn't fool around or have sex
with anyone? So how did you cheat? I am the confused
one here.
Anyway, if he doesn't believe you that is his
problem. Stick to the truth, at least you know
what you did do. How can you make him love you
again? How could YOU love someone who can't
even believe you?
I think you should learn to stand up for yourself
and love yourSELF more.
Pink
name:
JR.
age: 35-44
sex: Male
sign: Capricorn
comments:
Dear S. Goddess,
Help!! I've been married for 9 years and I love
my wife but I've just found out the hard way that
my wife has been unfaithful. She has had about
4 lovers in the last 3 years and been heavy into
drinking and smoking weed while I was on various
deployments (I am in the Military). Now she wants
to come back. The question is should I take her
back, can she change, or should I just move on??
What's should I do?
Reply soon, JR.
Dear
JR,
Think about if you really are willing to forgive
her actions, whatever the reasons were does not
really matter. Do convey to her all your feelings
clearly and rationally. Then if you do take her
back, make sure that you are
willing to put all her indiscretions behind, and
start fresh. Nothing is certain, but this is the
only way I could see her realizing her folly,
as
well as the depth of your love and commitment
and thus choosing wholeheartedly to make a concerted
effort to change.
Luck,
Pink
name:
ILEANA
age: 18-24
sex: Female
sign: Gemini
comments:
I
BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 4 MONTHS. I REALLY
LIKE HIM & EVERYTHING SEEM TO BE GOING GOOD
BUT HE LIVES IN A DIFFERENT STATE. I SEE
HIM
ONLY 3 TIMES A MONTH.
I'M A TYPE OF PERSON WHO LIKES TO BE WITH MY MAN
ALL THE TIME. I'M SCARED THAT THE DISTANCE WILL
PULL US APART. I WANT TO KNOW IF I SHOULD LET
MY FEELINGS GROW OR START PUSHING AWAY.
PLEASE HELP!!!!
Dear
Ileana,
Either you could try to have a positive attitude
and see how this long distance thing works by
spending the few precious times you have with
him, having as much good humour and joy as possible
so that you both will look forward to meeting
again and continuing the great vibe.
OR you could start giving into your fear and create
even a further distance emotionally than
can
be measured in miles. Anything is possible between
two people, distance or no distance. It is all
dependent on your attitude. Which one will you
take? Fearful or Hopeful?
Luck,
Pink
name:
No Name
age: 18-24
sex: Female
sign: Libra
comments:
I am dating a boy for 2 years. He has some problems
with his family and he is always angry. I love
him more than anything but what should I do to
change his attitude towards me?
Dear
No Name,
Your boyfriend needs to address his issues with
his family. You should encourage him to get help,
such as family counseling, or if not that to try
a therapist himself. His attitude, I'm afraid,
will change only when HE begins dealing with HIS
problems. Getting angry at you is not an option.
If you allow him to vent his anger on you, you
are not doing him or yourself any justice. If
you do love him as much as you say, then make
an effort to make him realize and revere the good
things in his life, for example YOU, then ask
him whether he prefers a life full of anger and
resentment (which perpetuates more anger and resentment),
or rather a life full of love, hope and gratitude
(which promotes healing in all aspects).
Luck,
Pink
name:
Kino
age: 18-24
sex: Female
sign: Sagittarius
comments:
Why is it that most guys I meet are desperate
to go out with me and at first are comfortable
and agree in not having sex but after just a day
or two
they start pestering me over this. One even accused
me of having a serious problem but for me sex
is no joke.
Why do they lie to me about this or I am I too
naive?
Dear
Kino,
The naive one certainly is NOT you. You understand
the implications of sex and they obviously are
only concerned with gratifying themselves. Stick
to your principles.
Love, Pink
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