Name: Mixed Up
Age: Under 18
Sex: Female
Sign: Aries

Comments:
Well, I'm a bit mixed up. I have a b/f but his friend is so sweet and cute... I have had a crush on my b/f's friend for two years but I have only had this b/f for 6 months. I would love to go on a date with the friend but I don't know if I should ask him or not... I did tell my b/f that I wanted to see other people just to see who I am most happy with so could you please advise on what to do about this situation....
Thanks, Mixed up

Dear Mixed up,
I am glad to hear that your boyfriend understands that you want to see other people. You need to tell your boyfriend that you are interested in his friend. Then find out if his friend is interested in you.

Good luck,
Pink

Name: Kevin
Age: Under 18
Sex: Male
Sign: Virgo

Comments:
Dear Sex Goddess,
My question is that my friend will not stop trying to "get with" my girlfriend. When I tell him about it, he just changes the subject. What do I do?

Dear Kevin,
The issue here is whether your girlfriend wants to get with this guy you call your "friend". If she dosen't, then you have nothing to worry about.
If she does, you need to find a new friend as well as a new girlfriend.

Luck,
Pink

Name: MacGyver
Age: 25-34
Sex: Male
Sign: Gemini

comments:
I've fallen in love with my best friend. But the problem is that she is a lesbian. I can't deny my feelings for her, I do love her with all my heart. I'm afraid to tell her my feelings due to the fact that I may destroy our friendship by saying those three foolish words. "I LOVE YOU"
What do I do?

Dear MacGyver,
The problem is not that you love her, it is that you desire her. If your love for her is true and unconditional, your greatest desire would be her happiness. So go ahead and tell her that you love her...AND then prove it by respecting the choices she has made.

Luck,
Pink

Name: Queen Zariah
Age: 18-24
Sex: Female
Sign: Sagittarius

Comments:
Hi Sex Goddess,
Well here's my problem. There's this guy that I've liked now for almost a year and I've been courting him ever since... I've left nice notes on his car, I would always flirt with him and also I've let him know how I felt about him.
I found out that he has some kind of relationship with someone else but he tells me that it's not a real relationship & just a sex thing but I know it's holding him back from going out with me. Aside from the fact of his father not wanting him to date a black girl, he says dating me isn't a problem and he want to go out with me. But I feel like an ass wanting him as much as I do and not getting any results. Also when I stop calling him and leaving him notes or I don't flirt with him he gets all uptight about it saying I'm not showing any interest but yet he won't go out with me.
Should I just give up?

Dear Queen Zariah,
Why should you show someone so disrespectful any interest at all? You
deserve to be treated like the Queen you are. Ignore him, It is HIS loss, NOT yours.

Love,
Pink

Name: David
Age: 18-24
Sex: Male
Sign: Virgo

Comments:
Hello Ms.SG,
I broke up w/my ex about 5 months ago because she cheated on me. I sometimes feel like I will never trust any girl again but know I have to.
My heart still feels broken and I hate talking to her on the phone but at the same time, I get paged and hope it's her. HELP ME !!!! :)

Dear David,
Hang in there, Time heals all wounds. You need some distance from your ex for a while so get a new pager. Focus on the future and maintain a positive attitude. You won't be angry or sad if you keep in mind that every event brings with it an opportunity for growth.

Love,
Pink

Name: Farrukh
Age: 25-34
Sex: Male
Sign: Taurus

Comments:
Why is sex so important in life?

IT IS IMPORTANT BECAUSE SEX CREATES LIFE.

Pink.

Name: Mike H.
Age: 25-34
Sex: Male
Sign: Scorpio

Comments:
My boyfriend and I have been fighting on and off for the last 6 months. I love him but he is really possessive. Last week I glanced at a young teenage boy who was bending over and Tony hit me. It made my cry to be hit by him.
What should I do??
Signed, Sad Mike

Dear Sad Mike,
Get help and ask your boyfriend to do the same. There is never an excuse for violence. Especially towards someone you love.

Pink

Name: Claudia
Age: Under 18
Sex: Female
Sign: Virgo

Comments:
Dear Pink,
I have a guy friend who was bisexual at one point, but now he says he's gay. He once was crushing on me for a while but I never saw him as anything else but a friend. Now he has a boyfriend and I feel very jealous. I know he's not happy because he shows it in the way he talks about him, yet he still tells me he loves him. I don't know if he's confused about being gay because he tells me he wants me to have his baby. I don't know what to do! I love him with all of my heart but I don't know what to tell him! Please Help!!!!
Sincerely Yours,
Claudia

Dear Claudia,
You need to sit down and have an honest conversation with your guy friend. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him to do the same. You may or may not ever be more than friends, but at least you will be taking a step towards becoming truer to each other.

Love,
Pink

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