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Robert sent the following
sign: Pisces
age: 25-34
sex: Male

comments:
Is there a correlation between women being independent and strong, and wanting to be dominated in bed (including "dirty" talk)? It's just that I have found it to be so with my previous two partners and I wonder whether it's as widely prevalent as I think it is.

Robert,
I don't think so. Really, you should take a closer look at your patterns, you just might discover something about yourself.

Pink

 


 

BIANCA sent the following
sign: Pisces
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
I HAVE BEEN GOING OUT WITH THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 2 1/2YEARS AND I WANT TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP BETTER BECAUSE ALL WE DO IS FIGHT. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO? CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME SEX GODDESS?

Bianca Darling,
It's been 2 1/2 years? AND you are STILL fighting? Give it up! It will not work out. If it was going to, it would have already. Stop beating a dead horse!! For god's sake, love relationships should be LOVING!

Love,

Pink

 


 

Jeff sent the following
sign: Capricorn
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
OK, my girlfriend and I always talk about having sex but it never happens. Sometimes she'll say that she's ready but when we get into it she backs off. I told her I would wait till she's ready. She gives me all these reasons why she's not ready yet. One was that she thought I didn't like the way she looked nude. But I told her she does look good. Another one is that she thinks if she has sex, she won't be daddy's' little girl anymore. Please help me to figure out what to do.
Thanks, Jeff

Dear Jeff:
There is nothing for YOU to figure out, She is the one who really needs to realize what it is that she really wants. Wait if you want, but I seriously don't think anything sexy is going to happen between you two.

Pink

 


 

Jacqleen sent the following
sign: Capricorn
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
Here is the deal: Well, I have been going with this guy who I really love and well..... I think I'm pregnant and am scared to tell him though he wants a baby more than anything. One thing..... I'm 15, he's 17. We are always getting into fights over silly things and the sex is the bomb, every time we see each other if we have a place and time, we just 'go for it'. I don't want it to be all about sex. How do I tell him, although it's the bomb! I want more out of this relationship. Don't get me wrong he's a sweetie. Sincerely, Young in love & may be pregnant

Jacqleen, SWEETIE:
First find out if you really are pregnant. Second, DO convey how you feel about things to your sweetie, if he really is a sweetie, he will reciprocate. If he is not, and if you are pregnant, well... darling welcome to a very brutal yet important lesson in life as well as in love.

Love,
Pink

 


 

Jay-Dee sent the following
sign: Capricorn
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
My parents won't let me have guy friends over although guys drop me off after school sometimes. I am 15.
Here's the scoop: On Valentines Day, my friend who drops me off after school almost every day came by to give me a gift because I had been going through some things with my boyfriend. When he came to the door my father tells him JD can't have company when the only thing he wanted to do was give me a bear and some chocolates. I live in a little neighborhood where there's only like 3 or 4 other people my age, but I don't know them that well. The ones I do know of are younger or as old as me and have male friends over all the time! I just to hang out while my parents are home. How can I confront them with this w/o them gettin p***ed off?
-Confused-

Dear Jay-Dee,
I can empathize with you. It is rough when your parents are incredibly rigid. If there is any possible way for you to communicate your feelings to them then do so. If there isn't, well... then you must convey your limitations to your friends as well as your admirers, if they really like and care about you, they WILL understand. Thus you can work around the SITUATION!

Get it,

Love,
Pink.

 


 

I can't help it. sent the following
sign: Capricorn
age: 25-34
sex: Male

comments:
I have been dating this girl for 1.2 yrs. & have known her since 9th grade. We have an awesome and adventurous sex life. I have recently gone back to weightlifting and my hormones have kicked into overdrive. I want to have sex all the time, anytime, but she .....well....she complains that I am a horn dog.
I see her only on weekends due to our distance apart.
Is something wrong with me? I am 29 and constantly thinking of sex. I have talked it over with her and she says there is something wrong with me and that I am not normal.

Dear Horn Dog,
It's ok to be one.

Go for it.

Love,
Pink

 


 

LaShawn sent the following
sign: Taurus
age: 25-34
sex: Female

comments:
I seem to be a magnet for bad men. Do you have a list of questions or something, to ask/drill future prospects, to help eliminate weeds?

Dear LeShawn,
The only question is to ask YOURSELF. "What is it that I feel I am worth!"

Love yourself,

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Valerie sent the following
sign: Sagittarius
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and now, I've just met this girl. She and I have become good friends. When we go to clubs, seeing her dance turns me on. I've always wanted to do something sexual with a woman, but I've always been too scared. Should I bring this up to my boyfriend and should I tell her I feel this way?
Please help me...

Dear Valerie,
There is really no need at present to discuss this with your boyfriend. First, you need to figure out if this woman is open to having relations of the sexual kind with another woman, second, whether she is open to IT with YOU. Third and last, only if the first two are aligned, would be announcing your intentions to your beau.

Love,
Pink

 


 

Charlie sent the following
sign: Scorpio
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
Dear Goddess,
My husband and I have been married for almost six months. It seems that many of our female friends have lost interest in having sex with their husbands within the first year of their marriage. What do you think the deal is? Is there any way I can prevent this or is it just a natural thing?
Thanks, Charlie

Charlie,
Nothing is NORMAL. So give up the worrying, okay! Please, let things take their course. The only key I can offer is to NEVER, EVER take things for granted with your husband. Only then will sex remain fresh. Most couples hang it up once they shack up. You should not.

Love,
Pink

 


 

Tasha sent the following
sign: Scorpio
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
There is this guy who has a crush on me, he flirts with me all the time, but he has a girlfriend. I also have an attraction for him, but I do not want to get into a relationship with him because it would be disrespectful to me and his girlfriend. The problem is that I have to come in contact with him all of the time because we both play basketball at the same school and the men's and women's team travel together. However, the only time he talks to me is when he wants to flirt. He has told me that I am intimidating but very sexy, and that "you don't know what you do to me Tasha." I want to know how to get him to converse with me when we are alone instead of freezing up. It almost seems like he uses flirting to make conversation. Do you have ANY suggestions? Thank You!!

Dear Tasha,
Tell him just what you told me, that you think that his behaviour is inappropriate and disrespectful both to you as well as to his girlfriend. Also let him know that until he ceases his other romantic involvement, you'd prefer to remain friends with him. YOU, on the other hand, need to consider whether you really are attracted to this sort of person. If he's capable of pursuing you now, with a partner in tow; what makes you think he won't do that to you as well?

Luck,
Pink

 


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