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Dear Sex Goddess, my question is simple to say but hard to understand. How do you know when you're 'in love'?

Snuggles,
When you're in love, you KNOW. Sounds too simplistic. But it is SO true, Love is incredibly consuming, yet you seem to be able to eat less, sleep less, work more, GIVE more. Suddenly your focus becomes adding to your loved ones JOY. When you feel your insides swimming with magnanimous giving thoughts and feelings toward another, and you don't care whether the object of your fancy reciprocates or even witnesses your actions, that is when you know you are in love.

Pink Jynx

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Do women look down upon uncircumcised men? Do they find it weird or unusual?

Nope!
It is circumcision that is cruel and unusual punishment in my book. The way nature created the manly organ, is PERFECT! Baby!

Pink

comments:
When I get depressed I like to cross-dress. This gives me a feeling of elation and freedom for the moment, but afterward I feel guilty. Is there some way I can break this habit?

Walter Honey,
Crossdressing seems to separate you from your daily realities. By dressing up in female garb, maybe, you feel unlike your normal self and find it easier to let loose, unwind, etc. There is nothing wrong with that, only consider your loved one, if you have one. How do they feel? Next time, try to identify the real reason for your guilt feelings. I personally think whatever rocks your boat is righteous, as long as you are not lying or cheating in order to do so. Keep your integrity, that is all that counts.

Luck,
Pink Jynx

Oce sent the following
sign: Cancer
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
I have a friend (female) that I've known for a long time. I just recently found out that she likes me, and I have this secret crush on her. The problem is that we are 7 years apart, is that bad? I'm not a molester or anything, but I REALLY like her. I think she's mature for her age. She's funny, and has an awesome personality. Does age matter in a relationship?
Thanks.

Oce,
Age does NOT matter in a relationship, but LEGALLY, it does! If you are 24, and she is 17, well that is legal (check locally). Otherwise, Darling, you must WAIT for her.
Okay?

Pink

Angelina sent the following
sign: Leo
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
I need to know the difference between sex, making love, and well, you know, the "F" word? See, me and a really good friend (we used to go out) had intercourse not too long ago. What we did was very passionate and meaningful, nobody has ever made me feel that way. But, I don't know what to label it! I need to know the true definitions of "the sex world". Could you please help me?

Angelina,
I think you already know.

Pink

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I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 2 1/2 YRS. WE BROKE UP FOR A WHILE AND I FOUND SOMEONE ELSE, BUT THEN WE GOT BACK TOGETHER. I FOUND THAT HE NOW DOES DRUGS. HE NEVER TOLD, ME INSTEAD HE LIES OR HE KEEPS IT FROM ME. I FEEL THAT IF HE CAN LIE ABOUT THIS, THEN WHAT ELSE... RIGHT? HE HAS CHEATED ON ME TWICE THAT I KNOW OF AND I SUSPECT MORE SINCE WE GOT BACK TOGETHER. I GAVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE NOT ONLY CAUSE I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART BUT ALSO I FEEL I DESERVED IT SINCE I WAS WITH THE OTHER GUY. I GOT WITH HIM A DAY AFTER WE BROKE UP AND I THOUGHT THAT MAYBE HE WAS JUST GETTING BACK AT ME. BUT AFTER FINDING OUT THAT HE CHEATED ON ME, I FIGURED THAT HE WOULD CHANGE BACK TO BEING HONEST AND TRUE, BUT COME TO FIND OUT HE IS STILL LYING AND KEEPING THINGS FROM ME. IT'S HARD TO NOT BE WITH HIM SINCE WE HAVE TO SEE EACH OTHER EVERY DAY. HOW CAN I GET MY OLD LOVE THE WAY HE WAS? WHAT CAN I DO TO GET US RIGHT OR SHOULD I EVEN TRY?

Tonya,
Sorry baby, there is no other way to tell you. STOP BEING A MORON AND GET AWAY FROM THIS GUY! Honey you deserve WAY BETTER! He will not CHANGE. You SHOULD!

Love,
Pink

DARA sent the following
sign: Taurus
age: 65+up
sex: Female

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I'M 66 YEARS OLD AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 30 YEARS AND I LOVE MY HUSBAND MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF. IT'S ONLY THAT I HAVE DONE SOMETHING VERY BAD. I CHEATED WITH A 21 YEAR OLD MAN. SHOULD I LET MY HUSBAND KNOW BECAUSE I'VE NEVER LIED TO HIM OR SHOULD I KEEP IT TO MYSELF.
P.S. THE 21 YEAR OLD AND I ARE NO LONGER TOGETHER.

DARA,
Keep it to yourself. What good can possibly be accomplished by disclosing something that is no longer affecting your relationship? Sometimes things just happen in order to make you aware of the greatness that already exists, live and learn.

Pink

Vira sent the following
sign: Leo
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
My question is there was this one guy that I was with for a bit over 3 years. We were living together and all of a sudden he found someone else younger (way too young) the problem is he is still sleeping with me and he tells her he loves her. Is that right... could he love her and yet sleep with me? Is that love or lust?
Thanks

Vira Darling,
This guy is a TOTAL JERK. He is plain using you as well as her.

Does he love her? NO!!!

Get as far away from him as you possibly can, and get some self RESPECT!

Pink Jynx

Matt sent the following
sign: Aquarius
age: Under 18
sex: Male

comments:
My friend has a girlfriend that I hooked him up with. He is the coolest person I know... so nice and caring towards her. When I first met her, she was very nice and seemed cool, but after they started going out, she used him for his money (by the way this friend of mine is rich). I was very mad. They have had sex many times (both were virgins before) so it would be very hard for me to split them up. I tried telling him she was using him and somehow it always ended up me being the so called 'bad person' so my question is what should I do?

Dear Matt,
If I were you I'd stay out of it. Yes, you were the factor that connected the two of them, but now let them deal with whatever comes. Your friend may be the coolest, and whatever reason he finds to remain with this woman, is good enough. So let him learn his own lessons, and do not worry about it. Experiences are never good nor bad; they are just opportunities for growth. Allow it. You are sweet and considerate to care, but you are NOT God.

Love,
Pink.