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??? sent the following
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age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
IN YOUR WORDS WHAT IS ROMANCE?

Hmm... ROMANCE: Here is one word, to define a thousand FEELINGS. Feelings are indescribable, unseen, intangible; therefore they can only be felt.
Romance could be a combination of: an ambiance that is suddenly created in one's psyche in the presence of someone special, a specific scent, a certain melody, a poignant memory, or a gorgeous view. It is a state of mind that is spontaneous. Its definition is unique to each individual, yet we all know what someone means when they use the word.
Romance: To me it is what all of us want, more than anything else. It is the motivating factor in everything we do. It is a sense of beauty, a resplendent chorus of divine sounds that wreaks havoc on every chakra of our bodies, yet incredibly serene.
It's heady.

Love, Pink

 


 

?? sent the following
sign: Scorpio -
age: 25-34
sex: Male

comments:
How can I introduce another woman into my wife's sex life?

Dude,
Ask HER how!

Pink

 


 

Amit K. sent the following
sign: Cancer
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
I masturbate daily & am so much tempted by it that I just can't stop myself. At times I become desperate too. I have been masturbating since 16. Now, I am 21. Please guide me.

Dear Amit,
Guide you? Honey, it's been five years, I am sure BY NOW you are familiar with all the many ways to please yourself.

Enjoy!
Pink

 


 

Christine sent the following
sign: Cancer -
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
I am 18 and haven't had a boyfriend yet, or anything serious. Whenever a guy likes me and things are starting to work out, I get scared. I am not sure what is wrong with me. I think I am scared because if he really gets to know me, he won't like me anymore. I am really nervous about getting physically intimate with guys too. I need advice on how to get over my fears and face them.

Christine,
WHY? Why don't you think he would like you? You really need to address your doubts and inhibitions to yourself. Try to meditate on what YOU think is wrong with you. Write me back, or ask your friends, or your sisters, or your mom. It seems you have very low self esteem, and that is what is holding you back from connecting with that someone special. Feelings can be worked out, remember that. You need to feel better about yourSELF.

I'm here,
Pink

 


 

Lilyan sent the following
sign: Aries -
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
Dear Goddess,
I have lost interested in sex with my boyfriend who I have been with for a year and half. We are very committed and he is the one, but I don't understand why I don't have this sexual desire anymore. I don't want it to become a burden on our relationship. Advice will be nice....

Lilyan,
Here is some nice advice: Forget about burdening your relationship and focus on where and why you lost your desire for him. Think about what you would prefer.

Love,
PINK

 


 

Erica sent the following
sign: Capricorn -
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
I recently had sex with this guy that I have known for years, and it was good, it was a surprise for both of us...I find myself really attracted to him and I think he feels the same way, but I'm not so sure...I asked him if he was surprised about all of this and he said yes, pleasantly surprise, but I guess I want more though I'm not sure if that is what he wants. My friends says I should wait and see what happens. I did let him know that I am very attracted to him. Does it take guys longer to make the transition from friends to lovers? I asked him if he would do it again, he said yes, but I made a comment saying "well, you're guy, they would say that". I hope that did not make him think that I think all men are out for one thing, and they can get it whenever they can...HELP. I don't want to ruin this..or maybe I already have..

Erica,
Puhleeze! Get over it! You can NOT ruin anything! The Rules, well... as far as I am concerned, there is only one. TRUTH! Tell the guy, If he doesn't respond favorably, well.. THEN YOU KNOW! Be honest. To YOURSELF!

Playing a game is only going to get you even more obsessed, and HUMILIATED!

Tell him exactly how you feel, if he does not feel the same way, the HELL with him. At least you were true to YOU! Wondering, hoping and playing coy, giving up responsibility for your feelings, is GARBAGE! You owe it to yourself to be upfront and honest. If he isn't on the same level, don't hate him, just move on. In peace.

Love,
Pink

 


 

2hot sent the following
sign: Virgo -
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
Dear Sex Goddess,
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year now and I just want to make him happy. So what is the best way to please him. He pleases me all the time.

Dear 2hot,
Stay yourself. He obviously likes that.

Pink

 


 

Sharon W. sent the following
sign: Aries
age: 25-34
sex: Female

comments:
Why do men always have to look at women nude all the time, plus my hubby is always putting his ad in the Web-TV as 'divorced'. What causes people to do that. He does it behind my back.

Sharon,
Your man isn't fair to you. Leave him. You deserve way better.

Pink

 


 

Laura sent the following
sign: Virgo -
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
How do I blow off an ex-boyfriend that is trying to make me jealous by flirting with other girls and acting like what we had meant nothing to him. I'm sick of letting him win his game and now I want to make his life miserable for a while just long enough for him to feel what I feel?

Laura,
Darling, whatever you pay attention to grows. If you want to actually affect this guy, STOP paying attention to what he wants you to. Get over him FAST. I promise, YOU will most definitely end the game this way. Keep letting him get to you and he is the one that is winning.

DISENGAGE!

Pink Jynx

 


 

Julie A. sent the following
sign: Aries
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
Well, it's not really about sex and this might be a pretty stupid question but I have never french kissed a guy before. I just started going out with this really nice and gorgeous guy and everytime he wants to kiss me, I back away a little. Not because I don't want to kiss him, but because I don't know HOW and I would feel uncomfortable telling him that !! I don't have any sisters or brothers to help me and I live with my grandfather!! Could you please give me all the tips you know on how to french kiss a guy!?!?!?!?

PLEASE I NEED TO KNOW!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!
JULIE A.

Dear Julie,
French kissing is really easy! No body has to take lessons, believe me, it just happens. Let your boyfriend kiss you, you will discover, I promise, it is instinctive. There are really no practiced, special mouth or tongue maneuvers here. Just follow your feelings.

Enjoy!
Pink Jynx

 


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