comments:
Greetings, I have had a relationship during my college days, now I am married for the past 2 years. I remember all the moments spent with her and desperately want to resume my relationship with her. Please advise.

Parimal Darling,
Greetings right back at you, Mr. Married Man! If you are interested in someone besides the one to whom you are married, the first thing on the agenda would certainly be to convey THIS intention CLEARLY to the one you openly and clearly made a formal commitment to be truthful and loyal to!

Are you asking ME for permission? Honey, if you really are desperate, ask yourself first and second ask your WIFE!

Pink Jynx

Yolanda sent the following
sign: Cancer
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments:
I have been dating this boy for about a month and a half. He keeps pressuring me to have sex with him. We haven't had sex yet but he's still pressuring me about it. One day he got mad because I said I wasn't ready and he didn't talk to me for a week. But now we're back together and still not having sex. I want to know should I have sex with him. Something's telling me to and something's telling me not to. I love him and everything but I just need to know should I have sex with him?

Yolanda,
Here is a rule of thumb: Whenever there is a doubt...Go WITHOUT.

Pink

Jamese sent the following
sign: Gemini
age: 25-34
sex: Female

comments:
Sex Goddess, I am a 25 year old female and I have this feeling that I am too nice to guys, I feel I cater to their needs more than my own. Is there something wrong with me because I do these things or is it just an insecurity issue? What should I do, date females instead of males? Please help.

Dear Jamese,
Don't rush into dating ANYONE. Make a special effort catering to your own needs for a while. I promise, when you get used to receiving that kind of excellent attention, (channeling what you give out inwards), the right person will materialize.

You deserve it,

Pink Jynx

Rose sent the following
sign: Pisces -
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments: If my boyfriend cums and washes it off and an hour later we have sex again, can I get sperm inside of me?

Yes, Rose:
Sperm is live and quite energetic. Plus, it's on a mission. So do realize the implications.

Pink

comments: What should I do, if my friend likes my girlfriend?

Andres,
There is not much to worry about, unless... your girlfriend also likes your friend.

Pink

Carole sent the following
sign: Virgo
age: 18-24
sex: Female

comments:
I'm about to have sex with my boyfriend of 1 year for the first time and I was wondering if you have any advice on how to make it really good. I know it will be very special just because we love each other so much but I also want it to be a good experience sexually. This will be the first time for both of us.

Dear Carole,
The only advice that I can humbly impart is that you both keep an open mind and look to the closeness that you have shared for a year without being physically intimate, and realize what a boon you have each been for the other. Having SEX can be crass and WAY boring, MAKING LOVE, on the other hand can ONLY be INCREDIBLY SPECIAL! You aren't committing an act, you are furthering your INTIMACY!

Congratulations, blessings, and ENJOY!

Pink Jynx

comments: How is sex gonna go for me and my boyfriend? He's a Leo. What do you think he would want?

Darling,
You. Just the way you are.

Pink

Jerry sent the following
sign: Aquarius -
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
I've been best friends with this girl for about 6 years now. I think I'm in love with her. Here is my problem: She's engaged to someone, but the relationship is very rocky. She's always asking me what she should do. I want to tell her about the way I feel, but I don't want to lose our friendship. Should I tell her, or just keep telling her that things will work out with her boyfriend?

Jerry,
Why would you tell her that things are going to work out with her fiancé? Do you really BELIEVE that? I hope that you aren't lying to her. If you are, then you really ought to think about your own motivations. Seriously, you don't sound like you are really in touch with your own feelings. If she really is your BEST friend, you should think and care about what is really, truly good for her and convey THAT to her.

Luck
Pink

Jalal sent the following
sign: Libra -
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments: I love my girlfriend a lot but I sleep around with other girls and I want to stop that. Please tell me how. I tried my best but can't stop...

Jalal:
Break up with your girlfriend. You said you really loved her. Now Prove it!
Give her an opportunity to be with someone who actually deserves her.

Pink

Jason sent the following
sign: Capricorn -
age: 18-24
sex: Male

comments:
This question isn't about sex as much as it is about women and love. My last two girlfriends both cheated on me. I was in a relationship with both for more than a year before this happened. I am confident in my looks and am at peace with myself so I honestly don't believe I drove these two women to cheat on me. I guess my question is this; What is wrong with us these days? I was in love and would not have dreamed about doing that to them. It seems like the whole young world is out to get laid. Screw the relationship, gimmie the sex. I have decided to stop being a "relationship" kind of guy and start being a "Gimmie the sex" kind of guy. I'm really not like that but I can't think of another way to stop getting hurt.  Any Suggestions?

Jason Darling,
There is always, ALWAYS a lesson in everything that happens to you. Yes. It sucks when someone you love cheats on you, then again! WHY!!!!, you ask, well, honey, the answer is not out there, it is within yourself. Think about WHY you attracted these people in the first place. I am not trying to be harsh, you do seem like the kind of guy who actually CAN grow from his experiences. I believe that there are NO victims, only volunteers...! Please have an open mind and think about THAT. AND... HAVE FAITH in human nature.

Lots of love and luck,

Pink Jynx