comments: Dear Sex Goddess!!!
Your answers as well as horoscopes are pretty cool. They are always fun to read. I think I'm a lot wiser for reading your columns so often.
However I still have a question about anal sex. My question is does the pain diminish with time if u keep having anal sex, or will it always hurt the same. Part of the problem I suppose is that my boyfriend has a really big penis (not that I'm complaining) and even with lubrication I feel much more pain than pleasure. Any suggestions?

Anna darling,
If it hurts, don't do it. If it has been longer than 3 months and it still hurts, forget about it, cuz it always will. Find other fun places to put it.

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I've been involved in a long distance relationship for the past 4 months. My only problem is that my boyfriend cheated on me. He has not been honest about his past and present relationships. In this I mean that he didn't tell me that he was still involved with someone else. He's been seeing this girl that he met a year ago and now I don't know if I can trust him or if I should take him back even though he lied to me. He calls me everyday to let me know how sorry he is and how much he loves me. I love him to death but how will I know that he's being genuine about his feelings and that he won't do it again?

DUMP HIM SHERRY!!!
He WILL Do it again, and again.
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My girlfriend only likes to have anal sex...nothing else. I want to do other things but she always insists on anal sex. I haven't really had any other type of sex in the last 7 months except anal sex. What should I do?

Dear Steve,
Ask her why. My thought is maybe she is afraid of getting pregnant.

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My girlfriend and I have been together for 18 months. I love her very much. I went away to college and she stayed home and ever since then she has been hanging out with this group of guys that I never met and she never hung out with when I was home. I get very jealous when I hear this because she is very beautiful and I don't want to lose her to anyone else. She tells me that they're just her friends but that's a bunch of crap! Guys are usually friends with girls because they want to be more than friends. Plus she is very friendly, well more like flirtatious. She gives guys the impression that she likes them all the time. I know this because she used to do that with my own friends. We fought over that when I was still at home all the time. I guess what I'm asking is, should I trust her that she isn't doing anything with anybody, or should I do something else, and if so what? I'm a very jealous person.

Dear Rob,
Wanna be jealous, go ahead, it will only make your worst fears come true as well as bring out your ugly side. On the other hand if you choose to trust your girlfriend, things might still turn out badly. (Although I disagree that all guys are only friends with girls because they want more.) The other side of this is if you trust her and she is really just friends with those guys, she will respect you and love you more for your trust, and if she is really lying, you will find out anyway, without having to get insecure and groggy, and YOU won't wanna be with her. TAKE YOUR PICK. I'd save my energies and trust her.

love,Pink

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I had been seeing this woman for about five months when she went overseas to teach for two years. During the time that she's been away, she got engaged to a man that she started to see while she was with me. I'm angry and pissed off, should I give her a piece of my mind or just let bygones be bygones?

Let bygones be bygones,
She is obviously not thinking about you, do you think if you gave her a piece of your mind ... she would, I don't.
She has moved on, you should too.

Love, Pink

comments: Hello,
I am an 23 yr. old having a girl friend with a fair relationship as a friend. We both want to marry but my family will not allow for that because she's from another religion and I am Muslim, what should I do? Should I kiss her? Any harm from kisses? She does not want a sexual relationship with me before marriage but when kissing, I feel excited. Then I will be unable to control myself.
I can't marry her. Should I leave her or not. I don't want to break from my family's decision. She will be serious when I am not talking to her, not having lunch or dinner. If I leave her, she will definitely commit suicide. Please suggest what to do.

DEAR Y. Khan,
You obviously have your mind made up. You do not want to break your family's traditions, Hence you must break up with your girlfriend. Please explain to her in elaborate detail your reasons and then LEAVE HER ALONE. Learn some control, you can do it. She will live longer and much healthier if you did.

Pink

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This my first time to visit your web...pretty professional in the way u handle the Q&As...& that makes me feel 'safe' to seek your opinion. Though I'm 22 but still a virgin (is it kind of a good thing?) I've not been out with a guy steadily before as I've never felt the need of having one, (though there are suitors) but recently, I always feel the urge to have sex, to be caressed, possibly by any man...Why is this strong desire in me out if sudden?! HELP!!!

Desire,
It is normal for someone your age to want to be caressed, and made love to. It is Hormonal. However, I would venture to add: It is WAY so much more meaningful when you actually love the person who does it to you.

Love,
Pink

comments: Hi! I really need advice on my relationship. My boyfriend is never here with me. He is always with his friends all day everyday, should I move on?

MOVE ON Courtney!
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comments: Will I ever be able to completely let myself go during sex?

Yes, Lourdes, I promise you, you will.
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Hello. I am 19 and haven't had sex yet. My problem is that I girls at my school are so incredibly superficial that the only reason they are interested in me is because of the way I look and dress. I share almost no common interests with the girls I meet, even though I make efforts to appreciate them. I figure that until I meet someone that has a good mix of beauty and spiritual awareness, I will never have sex.
Is this such a bad thing?

Dear Joey,
You are so cool. Where were you when I was 19. I am certain you will find the right mix of beauty and spiritual awareness as you deserve it. Until then, stick to your values baby.

Love ya,
Pink

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Here's my problem. I have only had sex once and it was the best time of my life. I am now sixteen and I constantly think about sex. I masturbate on average, 2-3 times a day. I also enjoy doing it in dangerous places. I have done it in a public pool, English class, school bathrooms, back of car (while someone was driving), in dog house (with dog present, and involved), and at my friends house, in his bed, with him there, while he was asleep. Now to my problem. When I was doing it in my friends bed while he was asleep I took off his boxers and went down on him and gave him head before rolling him over and sticking my penis up his anus. I screwed him until I came leaving my load in him. Luckily for me he never woke up through the whole thing. I have also had sex with my dogs and given him head and her, I have had intercourse with. My problem is... Does this make me Bi-sexual or Tri-sexual. I do like girls and have had oral sex with many.
So my question would be what am I?

My dear Confused one:
You are neither Bi, or Tri. You are just experiencing your bout with PUBERTY. Don't worry, I suspect you will be fine.

love,
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