Peggy sent the following
sign: Virgo -
age: 18-24
sex: Femalecomments: I'm sexually active, does the girl need to have
an orgasm or "get off" to get pregnant?
Dear Peg,
If the BOY has an orgasm inside you, whether you enjoyed it or not...You CAN get pregnant!
Pink
Gabriela sent the following
sign: Taurus -
age: 18-24
sex: Female
comments: I am currently in a long distance relationship. We are both very
dedicated & very much in love. I will not see my lover for the next 6 months. How can
I stay sane and how can I moderate my feelings of missing him? I won't be able to visit
him and vice versa.
Dear Gabriela,
Try meditating, writing or doing some charity work. If you use the "missing him"
energy learning a new language or something, he'll be so very impressed and proud when you
do see each other again. Plus, you'll have acquired a new skill as well!
Luck Pink
Kat sent the following
sign: Leo -
age: Under 18
sex: Female
comments: I have been going with my boyfriend for quite a while. We both say we
love one another, and I'm getting my doubts. "Do I love him or do I not?'', I hardly
see him. He goes to a different school than I do and we rarely have a chance to see each
other. I am starting to fall for another guy at my school, and I know I shouldn't say it's
a big deal. I guess I have a little crush on this other guy. I will get over it
eventually, right? What should I do to stop these feelings towards the other guy. I can't
dump my boyfriend, it would hurt him too much.
Please help me!
Dear Kat,
I think it is time to dump the old boyfriend, you would be hurting him so much more if you
didn't. Staying with someone just because is not enough of a reason. Besides, he may be in
the same boat!
Luck Pink
Jayme sent the following
sign: Aquarius -
age: 18-24
sex: Female
comments: Ok, I have this problem....I really really really enjoy being with
other women (sexually) but I am also attracted to men...I like to kiss them, etc...but
when it comes to sex.....I hate it! Am I a lesbian?
Dear Jayme,
Why are you so stuck on labels? You must put aside definitions and explore your feelings
toward both males and females. I dare suggest that you might actually be attracted to
specific people, not their genders.
Pink
Flora sent the following
sign: Aries -
age: 25-34
sex: Female
comments:
I am a bit worried because I don't think I have ever had an orgasm. People are always
saying you KNOW when you're having one, but I think I've only experienced the outskirts,
subtle thrills of an orgasm. The even sadder thing is, I have been with a lot of men. Most
of the encounters ended up in long, loving relationships. But I never had 'one' with any
of them. I enjoy making love, and no man has ever complained. However, they don't know
that I have been acting on cue when I know the time has come (no pun intended). Am I
frigid? Can you BE frigid, but still want to have sex? Please tell me how I can get to
know myself better. Will masturbation work? I want to find out what I've been missing.
Flora darling,
It seems to me that your mind and body while having sex are more focused on pleasing your
lover. Trying masturbation is a good idea. Let me know if it feels orgasmic.
Pink
Melody sent the following
sign: Sagittarius -
age: 18-24
sex: Female
comments: I broke up with my boyfriend about 8 months ago, I haven't been able
to let another guy get close to me because of how bad I was hurt. We were together for 3
1/2 years. What I'm wondering is if I will ever get over the fact that not all men are
ASSHOLES, and can be trusted?
Dear Melody,
Time heals all wounds...and...time wounds all Heels!
You WILL get over it.
Love, Pink Jynx
Bharati Kaama sent the following
sign: Aquarius -
age: 18-24
sex: Female
comments: Hey, I am married but don't get enough sex to satisfy my desires. I
am always thinking about sex while at work or doing studies, which is affecting my
concentration, so I can't focus fully on anything. What should I do to overcome this
problem?
Dear Bharati,
Do try to talk about this with your husband as he seems to be the first person who can
help you out. If he is uninterested, then you desperately need a creative outlet. With
that I mean: Writing, painting, dancing, singing or Physical exercise. If that sounds too
blah, it is time for a new romance, it just may not work out with your present hubby.
lots of luck,
Pink
Bill sent the following
sign: Sagittarius -
age: 18-24
sex: Male
comments: It seemed in college, I only had sex with girls when I/we were
drinking or drunk. Is there a problem here or what?
Bill,
Seems like you need to drink to get over your inhibitions. That sounds like the beginning
of major problems to me.
Luck Pink
John G. sent the following
sign:
age: 18-24
sex: Male
comments: I am 19 year old from California and I have a BIIIG problem. Recently
I was introduced to my 16-year old half sister, who just moved to the town where I live.
We are now best friends and we hide nothing from each other......except for one thing. She
is very attractive and funny. She puts up with my shit and listens to me when I talk to
her. Basically, she is all I ever wanted in a girlfriend. Yep, you guessed it, I like her!
I know that this is sick and unnatural. I have tried for two months to let maturity
take over and kill this absurdity, but to no avail. I tried dating and it doesn't work.
Thankfully, no one knows and I keep it to myself so well not even she can tell.
So what do I do? Should I see a psychiatrist? If I wait a few more months, will it go
away? Remember I only met her two months ago, so maybe my subconscious mind hasn't had
enough time to register her as my half-sister. Please help, I don't want to lose my best
friend..
John,
You want the forbidden. That's all. Work it out in your head please, because there is a
great deal of pain and regret that will result otherwise.
LuckPink
Goldberg sent the following
sign:
age: Under 18
sex: Male
comments: To put it short, I'm worried about my g/f. I'm 17 and she's an 18
year-old college student. I'm still a virgin but she isn't. I have this terrible feeling
that when we do have sex for the first time, I may not be good enough and might be
compared to her other experiences. What can I do?
Goldberg,
You need a serious dose of confidence in yourself! Your girlfriend may be a year older and
more experienced, but obviously she is with you for a good reason, what ever it may be.
Stop worrying about things that may or may not happen and focus on the positive!
Pink Jynx
YAJAIRA M. sent the following
sign: Gemini -
age: 18-24
sex: Female
comments: Dear goddess, I'm 14 years old. My boyfriend is 20. He loves having
sex and so do I. One day we were having sex and I had my period. I refused to have sex.
Now he's always bugging me about it. Should I do it with him when I have my period?
Yajaira,
Only do it if YOU want to! This should be true even if you aren't having your period. You
should only have sex when YOU feel like it.
Pink
Ami sent the following
sign: Aquarius -
age: 18-24
sex: Female
comments: I live with my fiancée. We've been together for only 6 months. We
fell so head over heals in love we got engaged after 2 months. He rodeos a lot and he's
decided that he wants to quit his job and do it full-time for a living (he's good enough
to do it too). But, he wants me to sitback and wait while he's gone for 10 months of the
year while he rodeos. That isn't what I want. That isn't what a relationship is suppose to
consist of if you ask me. I dunno. I love him a lot. Am I being selfish? Am I not
supporting him? Oh! And he wants to have a kid and still live under the same
circumstances! HELP PLEASE!
P.S. He's a Gemini if that helps you any.
Dear Ami,
I don't think you are the one being selfish. If he wants to go on tour rodeo-ing, he
should, but by expecting you to put up with his absence while raising a family etc...
Sounds way more selfish to me. Don't marry him just yet, try maintaining a relationship
with him away for at least 6 months, if you think you can deal with it, then consider it.
Luck, Pink
Christina sent the following
sign: Gemini -
age: 25-34
sex: Female
comments: Is teaching someone to kiss the "right" way wrong to do if
they don't want to be taught? I am seeing someone that cannot kiss, so I told him I was
going to slowly but surely change the way he kisses to the way I want him to kiss. I don't
think it is a bad thing because I want him to kiss more passionately, more sensually. I
love to kiss!!
Christina babe,
If someone doesn't want to be taught something, no matter how you try, they will not
learn. Give it up. I realize you love to kiss, so find someone who does as well!
Love Pink
Joe sent the following
sign: Leo -
age: 18-24
sex: Male
comments: I'm addicted to pretty women but I do have a girlfriend. We've been
together for about three years now, and I love her to death. I haven't been totally honest
with her. Should I confess to her that I got someone pregnant? And if yes, how should I
come about telling her so she wouldn't kill me?
Joe,
You only have to tell her this piece of info, IF the woman you impregnated had the baby.
OR... if this happened while you were dating your girlfriend. If any of these
circumstances apply, then you'd better tell her straight away, or she WILL find out and
then you are history.
Luck, Pink
Spkerby sent the following
sign: Scorpio -
age: 18-24
sex: Male
comments: Greetings, My situation is that I am a sophomore in college and still
a virgin. For some reason I feel obligated to lose my virginity. This influence is
basically peer pressure. I do have a girlfriend and she does understands the fact I'm
still looking for the right person. However, I think that it may be the fear of an actual
commitment.
Spkerby,
Take the time, however long it may be, to figure out if you actually have a fear of
commitment, and WHY. The hell with peer pressure, there may be enough pressure inside your
psyche, no need to jump into a sexual relationship and make things even more complicated.
Your girlfriend seems like a true gem of a friend.
Count your blessings.
Pink
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