comments:
I am in school to abtain a degree in Psychology.  My b-f attends the same school for Criminology or something...and we are together under cover. Anyway...he has been scouted numerous times by modeling scouts and is REALLY interested.  I want to support him fully and he tells me that I will benefit from his good fortune (w/money, etc).  I don't want to keep him from his dream but I do want him to finish is degree, and not let the money and glamour cloud his vision(s). What to do...What to do????
P.S. We have a very special relationship and I am extremely happy.  This is the one thing, though, I can't work out in my head.

Hopeless one,
If you do support him: If he makes it big, and he does not get a big head, he will end up trusting and loving you more.
If you do not: He as well as You will always regret it.
So.. there is only one thing you rationally should do: TRUST him and let it go. If he has integrity, he will be true, if he does not, that is important information for your life plans, is it not?
Luck and HOPE,
Pink

comments:
... as I become older, I think back to times when I would "play" with some of my "special" girlfriends.   I always thought of it as childhood exploration, but lately I've come to realize it meant much more to me.  After marriage and children, I often think of them during sex with my husband.  He's aware of this, but I've never mentioned my desire to "revive" those relationships.  Do you think it would be a mistake to call on my childhood friends and see what happens?

Carmen,
I don't think it is a mistake, it would be one if you didn't! Do let me know what you learn.
luck,
Pink

comments:
Does every female in the universe who decided not to be fat in this life decide to have a boyfriend collectively? I am a good looking, good-natured guy sick of merciless cruelty in this hell. Are there any women left who think sex is a good idea to keep outside of prostitution?

Martin,
I am not clear about this question. Explain.

comments:
Ok, another thing.  I'm making an adult film. 10 movies with new-cummers to video.  I figure 5 girls a movie will equal the number of partners I've had in this life.  I should make about 50,000 from this venture.  Any advice?

Make a movie, go for it!
Pornography seems to be your outlet.
Pink

comments: I've been having oral sex with my boyfriend and we tried having sex but I didn't bleed, is it normal? And is having oral sex for quite often not good?

Rona,
It is not always the case that a woman bleeds the first time she has sex. OKAY! You are fine. The only thing wrong with having oral sex all the time is not enjoying it.
Pink

comments:
I am involved in a long term thing, me and my woman been together a long time. A short time ago while visiting an old girlfriend, somethin' happened. We were sittin on the floor, I had to leave so we hugged goodbye. It was a very long and passionate hug. She ended up on my lap with her legs wrapped around my waist grinding her privates against mine. She came. I did not. Clothes stayed on, I only touched her back and head. We didn't kiss. Did I cheat?

No you didn't. You only alleviated the NEED of some selfish desperado who does not respect you or the choices you have made.
Feel better?
Pink

comments: Basically I have this problem, I am 16 and I like this girl Amy and well, she is one of those girls who like bad boys and I just wanna know how I can get with her... and why nice guys always finish last.
Peace and Thanx

Brandon baby, wait 10 years and you will realize that nice guys do not finish last. This girl, likes abuse. Forget her. Find someone who is in touch with positive elements about personality, you will be way happier.
Peace.
Pink

SANDRO (SANDROL_73) sent the following;
sign: Aquarius -
age: 25-34
sex: Male

comments: WHAT'S RUSHIAN SEX ?

Rushing into sex.
Having sex with some one from Russia.
Sex as explained by Rush Limbaugh.

comments: i think that i am so FINE that whenever i look at a women i think im to good for her !!i have slept with a few girls and i am 15 should i have lower expectations for women ?

Brian, You probably look FINE. You sure cannot spell and your grammar sucks!
How is that. I think you deliberately attract women that aren't all that so that you can feel like ALL THAT.
You need to look in the mirror.
Pink

comments:
I am still hung up on my x-fiance.  I have never been touched by an individual that made me feel as if nothing else in life mattered, for I have little feeling for my own family.  I moved 1200 miles to escape my ties and still find nothing but pain.  I nearly ended my life for her, through away my old career and moved back for her, have spent time in therapy to regain myself.  I have dated six women in the last few months and am currently with a gorgeous Asian lady, yet still would do anything to have this woman that I called everything under the sun in anger while we were together.  My mind is never were it should be, no focus, no restraint, no peace.  As a methodical accomplished engineer who has done it all, why is such an emotional bug destroying my life.  How to get over a lost love of a lifetime.  I ended the engagement, she ended my heart.

Oh Kurt,
I feel so sad for you. I am glad you are in therapy though. Continue on that path, seems to me that you have a great deal of anger, not necessarily towards your ex, but towards your family that you expressed towards her. You need to work out your anger, it is incredibly important. By ending your engagement you might have inadvertently done her a favor and saved her a great deal of pain being your punching bag. She will always be an important part of your life, so let her be the one who inspired you to work out the deeply imbedded pain in your psyche, and not the one who you continue to blame to be the reason for it all.
You can do it,
Pink

comments: Help, She only wants for me to be on top and it gets boring some time. I want some more excitement. What do I do?

James,
Talk to her, if she really cares, you will work out a solution. If not find yourself someone more adventurous.
Pink

comments:
My wife just had a baby.  It's been four months and she won't have any intimate relations with me anymore. Why won't she have sex with me?

Come on Mario,
Give her a break, she is busy being the full time food machine, emotional security guard as well as physical anchor for a brand new entity that just entered this dimension 4 months ago. How would you feel if you just entered the twilight zone and your lifeline left your side for even a second. How much more intimate can your relationship get?   BE THERE FOR HER NOW!  It would mean more joy and love between the three of you than you can ever imagine. Compare a few months without sex to that!
Congratulations!
Pink

Love, sent the following;
sign: Cancer -
age: Under 18
sex: Female

comments: I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'm pretty and everyone compliments me and tells me I should be a model. I'm a little shy, but not really. What's wrong?

Love,
Just because you're 14 does not mean you have to have a boyfriend. The only thing wrong with this picture is that you haven't focused the camera (your inner self) yet. Beauty is nice, yet, meeting friends, (or boyfriends) requires a great deal more. Get yourself a 3 dimensional image, not just one that would look good in a photograph.
Love,
Pink

comments:
My male friend who's away from me right now, and has been for almost two years, is the person I want to marry.  There are two other people that I am very much in love with (I know what I'm saying is kind of contradictory but as you probably know Scorpios have that ability to love strongly with more than one person).  The thing is, he (the one I want to marry) has just always been there, never disappointing me, always telling me everything.  To him other females don't exist (He's a Leo).  I hurt him before a few times and vowed never to do it again. The other two are people that I know I'm very much in love with but have a tendency to let me down.
Do you think I am just with him (marrying one) because of stability and trust?  I do love him and am in love with him & have a tendency to put him on the back burner. It's alot more to it, but just know that I am usually the person that gives relationship advice, so it is a very deep question and not just the obvious.

Hey Sexy,
It seems to me that you want to POSSESS. You haven't yet enslaved the two lovers thus you still think you love them. Once they are completely under your spell, you will put them on the back burner just like the Man you claim to want to marry. You desperately need to spend some time alone, away from one sided relationships. What do you really think?
Luck,
Pink

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